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Featured Event: 

Babes of Summer Photo Contest begins May 21st! Sponsored by Marine Bank and Featuring Kimberly Smoot Photography

Parenthood Preview at St. John's Hospital, May 8th 7-9 pm call 744-BABY to register  FREE. 

 

NEW!  Featured Sponsor Links

Finding a Baby Carrier that Works! by The Sling Connection 

Arbonne All Natural Baby Care

Ahh Yoga is now starting prenatal yoga classes.  More here.

Prairie Heart Center for Living is now offering Prenatal CNRGY Yoga classes. Click here for a schedule.

Featured Articles

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St. John's Children's Hospital

Babies R Us

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American Red Cross  Check out their Infant and Child CPR classes or at-home kits

Beware Baby-Buying Binges

First-time parents often fall prey to masterful marketing and overbuy, only to discover they might have saved hundreds of dollars without collecting unnecessary items.  When cleaning out the storage room, we discovered a collection of several frivolous items including a lotion warmer and a Kangaroo backpack!)  Email us about those baby purchases you most regret, or gifts you wish you'd returned for diapers, and we'll share them here.

 

Adoption

Check out One Mom's Story by Dee Dee Shaffer and her heartfelt article on adoption.

 

Adoption Websites and Links

Positive Adoption Language:  http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/pdf/PositiveLanguage.pdf

Adoptive Families Magazine: www.adoptivefamilies.com

www.adoptioninstitute.org

www.med.umn.edu/peds/iac

www.adoptivefamilies.com

www.adopt.childrenshope.net

 

How-To and Information Books

Successful Adoption by Natalie Nichols Gillespie

Cross-Cultural Adoption by Amy Coughlin and Caryn Abramowitz

Raising Adopted Children by Lois Ruskai Melina

Attaching in Adoption by Deborah D. Gray

 

Adoption Storybooks

A Mother for Choco by Keiko Kasza

The Mulberry Bird by Anne Braff Brodzinsky

It’s Okay to Be Different by Todd Parr

Over the Moon by Karen Katz

How I Was Adopted by Joanna Cole

Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born by Jamie Lee Curtis

 

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Baby Tips

Babies Learn from Reading Faces

Borrowing Hand-me-Downs Made Easy!

Baby Wearing: The Essentials

Central Illinois Baby Wearers

Cloth Diapers

Colicky Babies

Cold Weather Play

Coupons

Diaper Bags for Dads!

Diaper Creme

Expand Your Child's World with Activities

Eurobath

G Diapers

Happiest Baby on the Block

La Leche League

Medela Customer Service

Medela Quick Clean Micro Steam Bags

Mom/Baby Groups
Nursing Bras

Nursing Questions answered.  Ask Janet!

Pets and Babies

Post-Partum Depression (PPD)

Ready, Set, Go! Teach Your Baby

ShoesZoo

Sibling Rivalry?  Tips for Mixing Pets & Babies

Sling Tote

Sling Connection

Stuffed Animal Donations

Video Scrapbooking

Winter Baby Must-haves!

 

Babies Learn from Reading Faces

Courtesy of The Parent Help Line at St. John’s Hospital

 

During a baby’s first year of life, he will learn how to handle new situations by reading his parent’s face. Researchers call this skill social referencing.  Babies are constantly involved in new situations.  They often come in contact with objects and people who are not familiar.  At about 1 year, babies can interpret the emotions they see on a parent’s face.  They know that certain facial expressions and tones of voice mean something.  It may mean, “Stop, don’t do that,” or “It’s OK, go ahead and play.” They will respond to a certain situation depending upon the parent’s emotional reaction.

 

During the first year of life, babies use “social referencing.” In a new situation, a young baby (6 – 9 months) looks to his mother to make sure she is nearby. He is not too concerned about his mother’s facial reaction.  He just wants mom nearby. However, babies 10 to 13 months old use their mother’s facial expressions to make decisions about new situations and objects. 

 

Your face will tell your child how you feel. Your baby constantly watches and learns from you. Help your baby learn the important skills of reading faces and emotions. 

Have fun face-to-face time with your baby. Let her see your facial expressions. Babies love to see faces. Notice how she smiles when you smile and frowns when you frown.

Provide clear examples of your emotions. If your child approaches something dangerous, say “no” and give a stern look. If it is OK for your baby to play with something new, say “OK” and give her a happy look. You can also nod your head for yes and shake your head back and forth for no.

Use positive emotions as you introduce your baby to new objects, food, and people.  This seems like a very simple concept, but your baby learns by watching you. You are your baby’s first teacher. It is crucial for you to talk to and interact with your baby. This keeps your child safe and healthy. 

For more information log on to www.parenthelpline.org

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Borrowing Hand-me-Downs Made Easy!   Whether you are borrowing maternity clothes, sports clothes, costumes or baby items...this is a great tip for managing hand me downs that need to be returned!   Thanks to Jennifer Madiar.  "We had so many wonderful hand-me-downs sent our way, but some were too beautiful to mark with initials.  I decided to lay the clothes on the floor with a sign saying who they were from, and then took a picture of them with my digital camera.  Upload the picture to your computer, print it, and tape it inside of the bag or box the hand-me-downs arrived in.  No more marking other people's clothes, and no hunting for a bag or box that's just the right size when it comes time to return the items!

 

Finding A Baby Carrier That Works

Courtesy of The Sling Connection

"Aw. . . Your baby looks so cozy!  I really wanted to hold my baby in one of those things, but it didn't work for us."  I heard comments like this when I walked around with my little one in a baby sling.  

A baby who is snuggled close to mom's heartbeat looks so right.  And it just makes sense for mom to be holding baby hands-free rather than lugging around a car seat.  So why does success with baby carriers elude some families?  Is it just one of those things that works for some people and not for others?  

Before you resign yourself to this conclusion, I want to tell you that I know lots of parents who have had success with babywearing, and I believe you can, too.  But you must have the two secret ingredients: 

1.  Good slings:  Most department store baby carriers won't cut it.  Find a simply constructed cloth sling, pouch, wrap, or traditionally inspired baby carrier.  And get a reputable brand.

2.  Help from experienced babywearing mamas:  Chances are someone (your mother, a professional, a mom friend) taught you how to care for your baby - feed, bathe, change, etc.  Learning to wear baby is no different.  It's easier when you have some help.

Resources (where to go for good slings and help from other mamas):

Find babywearing information, reviews of baby carriers, and babywearing community at 

The Baby Wearer Website:  www.thebabywearer.com

Meet local babywearing familes at Central Illinois Baby Wearing:  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/centralillinoisbabywearing/

Or, shop in person with a free consultation at 

The Sling Connection:  www.theslingconnection.com

Trouble Shooting

Did the carrier hurt your back?  You may want a two shoulder carrier such as a mei tai or wrap which will distribute weight over both shoulders and your hips and allow you to comfortably carry baby up to 35 pounds and beyond.  Serious comfort. 

Did your baby hate to be in it?  You'll want to try out some of the different styles available to see what baby likes.  Pay attention to how baby likes to be held in your arms, and choose a carrier that will best allow you to mimic that holding position.  (These simply constructed carriers can cater to even the most finicky babies.)  Once mom and baby have a chance to get used to it, you'll both love it.  Baby will either be very content . . . or fast asleep.  

Back to the Basics

What is Babywearing?  The term “babywearing” refers to the practice of holding your baby close to your body in a sling or soft baby carrier.  It is both a mode of transportation and a way to promote attachment.  Simply a way of life in much of the world and throughout history, babywearing has been rediscovered and is now a growing trend.

Benefits of wearing baby.  Both Mom and Dad can use this powerful tool to soothe fussiness, reflux, and colic.  Babywearing mamas are more responsive and sling babies are more likely to develop a healthy attachment.  Babywearing can relieve the arm and back strain of holding a child. Wearing baby makes frequent breastfeeding easier on mom which can boost milk supply and lower stress.  Sharing your personal space with baby protects him from unwanted touches of strangers – a great way to keep baby safe from germs in cold and flu season.  Carrying baby enhances motor skills by stimulating the vestibular system (used for balance) and lowers his risk of plagiocephaly (asymmetrical head shape).  A babywearing mom is often hands-free, enabling her to do housework and tend to other children while caring for her baby.  Carried babies tend to cry 40 – 50% less and spend more time in a quiet alert state, where learning takes place.  (For sources and details, see www.theslingconnection.com.)  Simply put, it makes life easier for you, and it is good for your baby!

 

Central Illinois Baby Wearers

www.groups.yahoo.com/group/centrailillinoisbabywearing

Contact: Carrie Sluga carrie@sluga.net

A group for parents/caregivers in the Central Illinois area who are interesting in different types of baby wearing and baby carriers.  CIBW meets monthly at various Springfield locations.  

 

Check out The Sling Connection, Beautiful, comfortable, and truly practical baby carriers. The owner of The Sling Connection is a local mom, Kaysha Simpson. 

 

Colicky Babies

If you’d be interested in joining a brand new support group for parents/caregivers of colicky babies in the Springfield area, contact amymcfadden@insightbb.com .  Springfield Moms hopes to connect families that are dealing with this challenge to get tips on how to weather this storm!  Participants are encouraged to bring along their crybabies, and an evening meeting time is being considered to accommodate all families.

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Cold Weather Play – Get Started, Today!

By Jennifer Madiar

I admit it – home with my almost 8-month-old Jack, some days I want to take the ‘out’ out of routine. We’ve built towers with wooden blocks, tickled the learning puppy’s tummy and practiced crawling (and done 27 other things, then repeated them). And there isn’t any snow outside, but it is way too cold to head to the park.  What to do?

 

  1. Make a playdate!  Whether it’s a weekend or weekday, plan regular get-togethers with friends and their kids.  New smiles and new toys do wonders for everyone’s moods!

  2. Bring the outdoors inside!  Is your garage heated?  Have your baby take a dip in a small wading pool for some serious splash time.  Or set up a blanket in the living room and have a picnic with all your child(ren’s) favorite furry friends.   And when we finally have snow?  Dump some of that snow in a plastic container, have your kids put mittens on and play with the snow (note: for most of us, this idea will work best in the bathroom).

  3. Take a day-cation!  Ditch the daily routine for a day (or if you’re like me, arrange to travel during kids’ naptimes) and explore a local museum.  Both the Children’s Discovery Museum in Normal (www.childrensdiscoverymuseum.net) and the Children’s Museum of Illinois (www.cmofil.com) in Decatur have eye-catching, completely engrossing activities for kids of all ages.  A note of practicality – keep extra cold weather gear in the car for traveling emergencies and make sure your cell phone is charged!

  4. Sign up for a class!  Springfield has a multitude of class options through Memorial Medical Center (www.memorialmedical.com), St. John’s Hospital (www.st-johns.org), the YMCA (www.springfieldymca.org), the Early Learning Center (www.springfield.k12.il.us/schools/elc), the Music Factory (www.musikgarten.org), and Kindermusik (www.kindermusik.org).  Having a fun reason to bundle up and brave the cold gives both parents and children something to look forward to!

  5. Foster your inner Anne Geddes!  Set up different photo ops inside and snap beautiful pictures of your kids.  There is no better way to learn how to use the video camera, or a real camera, than during ‘real’ moments.  Kids of all ages love hamming it up, and when you snap that perfect pic, submit it to www.thecutekid.com – they have a new contest each month.

 

For more winter play and activity ideas, continue to visit the What’s Happening” section on Springfield Moms.  Also check out www.wondertime.com, www.parenthacks.com and www.babycenter.com for hot ideas during cold weather.  And hey – less than five months until the first day of summer!

 

 

Coupons! Register & Save Big! www.gerber.com www.similac.com www.pampers.com

Every new mom needs to know about this.  Register at these websites and you will start getting coupons in the mail and on-line.  It’s just that easy. 

Formula coupons are $5 coupons, so well worth your time.  Pampers.com is a little more involved, but still worthwhile.  Inside each pack of Pampers, there is a sticker with a code number.  Enter it at Pampers.com under Gifts to Grow.  You’ll start earning points that can add up to purchases.  You can pick from a selection of books, toys and dvd’s when you register and redeem the points. 

Be prepared to spring for shipping (ours was under $5.00)

 

Cloth Diapers: One Mom’s Story by Kristen Schmid-Schurter

When my husband went back to work after our baby was born, the second question everyone asked was: “How are the cloth diapers going?” Perhaps they thought the cloth diapers would go the way of my attempt at natural childbirth, where I caved at the 11th hour and clicked the morphine dispenser like a crazed lab rat.

 

My interest in cloth diapers stems in part from my tree-hugger tendencies, and in part from my natural cheapskate instincts. Also, my only experience in infant care was changing and bathing my little sister, and when I was seven years old the diaper pins didn’t faze me. Twenty-six years later they did. I tried diapering a stuffed bear by following the Dr. Spock book illustrations. It was so difficult, I just hoped my mom could teach me everything.

 

Instead she bought a mountain of Huggies and Luvs out of sympathy for her son-in-law. When I asked Mom to demonstrate proper diaper pin usage, my six-day-old son kicked and screamed violently. She threw up her hands and said “I give up. I’ve never seen anything like this. Enroll him in every physical activity possible.”

 

But by then, my husband had taken ownership of the cloth diaper challenge. He methodically improved his diaper pinning strategies, with help from his mom and online research, and began giving me patient tutorials. 

 

Now, maybe because it’s all we know, using and washing cloth diapers actually isn’t that hard. When the diapers exceed the small pail we have – in about two days, by three they’re a health hazard – we dump them in the washing machine and prewash them. Then we wash the diapers in hot water with bleach, detergent and OxiClean, and tumble dry.

 

We use 36 Gerber Prefold Birdseye Cloth Diapers, which are about $12 for 12. We also have 12 slightly less expensive Gerber's Flat Fold Birdseye Cloth Diapers. They aren’t as absorbent so they became burp cloths and diaper change pee shields. Both kinds of diapers are available at Babies “R” Us, Target and Wal-Mart, along with diaper pins. Babies “R” Us and Wal-Mart both have vinyl pants.  It is possible to avoid pins entirely and buy diapers with snaps or Velcro on the Internet.  Those are available online at www.greenmountaindiapers.com , www.tendertushorganics.com  and www.tinytush.com

 

We are still at the beginning of our diapering journey. When our son starts “stooling” we’ll have to scrape the diaper contents into the toilet. When he gets bigger, we’ll have to learn how to pin two prefolds together. But for now, we can pin a pretty mean diaper. And our son’s bottom is happier in cloth. Unfortunately, neither cloth nor disposable can reliably hold his diaper contents.

http://www.mothering.com/articles/new_baby/diapers/politics.html

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Diaper Bags for Dads!

 A diaper bag for dudes?  Yep!  www.diaperdude.com.  So long girlie, character-themed or anything that screams "diapers are in here!"  The designer of these bags is a father of two and is keeping dads looking cool while also doing the right thing ... spending time with the kids!  Priced at around $55-$60, but they are very hip!  

 

Diaper Creme and more!

All natural baby care products from Arbonne.   Baby's skin is prone to dryness and is easily irritated.  Arbonne baby care products assist the skin's ability to retain moisture. Our diaper rash cream is made with oat flour which is highly absorbent and hypoallergenic, it is like no other diaper rash cream out there!  Connect with Springfield Mom Natalie Allan to learn more or sample their baby care line.   More here

 

Expand Your Child’s World with Activities   courtesy of The Parent Help Line at St. John's Hospital

Lessons in sports, music, drama, and art help children develop skills for life and school. Classes help them learn talents. To prepare your pre-school or school age child for classes or sports teams, expose her to a variety of activities.

Encourage your child to run, skip, and freely dance to music.

Watch with interest as your child plays “make believe” or creates and organizes plays. Join in the fun.  Toss balls to your child. Play a game of catch. Do jumping jacks. Play sports together. Go swimming. Exercise is good.

Provide art supplies ­— crayons, markers, paper, glue and age-appropriate scissors. Encourage your child to create art. Display your child’s art in a special place in the home.

Play music at home and in your car. Have family “sing-a-longs.”

 

As your child gets older, enroll him in classes or sports you think he might enjoy. If you see him excel in a certain activity, formal classes may help him reach a greater potential. Classes may also help a child who lacks certain skills. A child who is shy or has trouble making friends needs activities.  Age does not always indicate that a child is ready for formal training.

A child also needs emotional maturity to handle group activities.

Activities are great, but they should not cause stress to the child.  For more information visit www.parenthelpline.org

 

Check out Springfield Moms list of Classes & Activities and Sports for kids from infants 6 months old on up!

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Eurobath, Bathe your child in luxury

Simply the best bathtub for newborns to two years.  Forget the basic bathtubs for your shower registry.  You will love this oversize “Eurobath.”  Faced one way, it cradles your infant so they don’t slide around.  Turn around and it supports your toddler with lots of room to splash.

Find the Eurobath locally at Babies R' Us or online at One Step Ahead  Priced around $30 or so. 

 

G Diapers – New Cloth Diaper Hybrid: Details from SpfldMoms reader Bronwyn Eves

Did you know disposable diapers can take up to 500 years to decompose in a landfill?

G Diapers are a cross between disposable and cloth diapers.  There is a reusable cloth outer diaper with flushable inserts.  The cloth diapers are made from a waterproof but breathable fabric.  They are super cute and come in fun colors.  I have never had them leak and my two-year old is comfortable in them; she rarely gets rashes anymore. The disposable part is definitely messier than disposables and takes some getting used to, but now I don't think twice about it.  I also love that the stink goes away and that I produce less landfill garbage. They are slightly more expensive than disposable diapers, especially ordering them on-line and paying shipping. I have contacted Food Fantasies about ordering them and they are pretty certain they can. The web site is http://www.gdiapers.com  They have helpful videos on their site for how to use and dispose of the diapers as well.

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Happiest Baby on the Block

Thanks to Becky Antonacci for this tip!  I wanted to share my new baby life-saver.  It the "The Happiest Baby on the Block" The New Way to Calm your Crying and Help your Baby Sleep Longer"

by Harvey Karp, M.D.   It comes in a DVD and book version.  I find it helpful to all new moms. The information shows you how to calm you baby when they are fed and changed, but they are still crying.   I find it especially helpful to breastfeeding moms who often blame themselves for fussy babies. They often think it is something THEY did or ate.   Dr. Karp helps you understand new baby behavior and how to keep they happy."  Look locally at Best Buy or try amazon.com for purchase.

 

La Leche League

http://www.lllusa.org/IL/WebSpringfieldIL.html

La Leche League is an international, nonprofit, nonsectarian organization dedicated to providing education, information, support, and encouragement to women who want to breastfeed.  All breastfeeding mothers and mothers-to-be interested in breastfeeding are welcome to come to our meetings or call one of the Leaders for breastfeeding help and/or meeting information. Babies are always welcome at our meetings.  Meeting Information  LLL of Springfield meets on the first Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. at St. Johns Hospital.   Carol Jo Vecchie Building, 4th Floor, Classrooms A & B.  Toddler Meetings are the third Tuesday of each month at 10:30 a.m.   Contact a Leader for more information.

Leader Information  La Leche League Leaders are experienced mothers who have breastfed their own babies and who have been trained and accredited by La Leche League International to help mothers and mothers-to-be with all aspects of breastfeeding. They are available by phone whenever you have breastfeeding questions or concerns. 

Contact: Michelle 217-787-7039, email hkysns1@aol.com or Janie 217-478-2011, email brgschnd@csj.net

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Medela Customer Service, by Paulette Dove

I have a Medela Pump in Style Advanced Breast Pump, purchased in Feb 2004. It worked well after the first baby (I had a very small problem, which Medela happily solved).  I recently started using it again and the yellow plug used to tell the machine I was double pumping kept pushing out of the machine during use.  I called Medela customer service, explained my problem, and they advised me the "faceplate" of the Pump in Style Advanced has been redesigned to solve this problem.  They sent me a new faceplate, via overnight UPS, for free (the warranty expired long ago). Two things -- Medela has the best customer service ever!  1-800-435-8316. If you have a Pump in Style Advanced and are having problems, call Medela.

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Medela Quick Clean Micro Steam Bags

Thanks to Kathy Scheffler for this suggestion! I’m sure you’re about to ask yourself, "Where were these when I was nursing?" These nifty bags sterilize your pumping accessories, pacifiers, and bottles in your microwave in just seconds. For moms pumping at work, they couldn’t make things easier for clean up. And, they’re very affordable at only $4.20 for approximately 100 uses. Available locally at Babies R Us and Target. Available on-line at numerous sites.

 

Mom/Baby Groups

Memorial Medical Center 217-788-3000 Numerous classics from new mom support groups, daddy boot camp, Lamaze, infant massage, etc.  Call for detailed information.   

St. John's Hospital, Carol Jo Vecchie Women and Children's Center  217-535-3696  Numerous classes from basic baby care to breastfeeding to infant massage.  Call for information.

We have a great support page; Click here for numerous other mom and parent groups! 

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Nursing Bras

Still looking for a nursing bra this is comfortable and functional?  After a long search, I found the best ones are Bravado bras: jog bra style, 100% cotton, easy to snap close with one hand and seamless.  They are simply the best!  I was only able to find them online; the best site to order them is http://www.sierrablue.com/bravmatbraba.html

Good news; they offer free shipping most of the time. 

 

Ask Janet!

Janet Tolley, the lactation program facilitator and labor/postpartum doula at St. John’s would be happy to answer your most common questions regarding breastfeeding or doula care. 

Please email janet.tolley@st-johns.org with your questions and we will publish most common questions in future issues.  Here’s one to start.

 Q.  My 16-month old daughter is still nursing several times a day and at least once a night.  She shows no signs of weaning, is this normal?  I have enjoyed nursing, but I sometimes feel like a human pacifier (she doesn’t use a pacifier or have any favorite blankie, etc. to comfort her).

A.  I think you will find that a baby nurses for more reasons than just hunger as they get older.  I find from women in our support group that all babies are different and it’s hard to compare them.  Some mothers complain they miss the closeness they enjoyed with nursing and other wonder if the baby will ever be done.  I like to encourage parents to be patient.  This child will eventually stop.  They all do.  But for her, right now no matter what the reason, she wants to be close to you.  Some mothers report that as soon as they sit down the baby wants to crawl up and nurse.  They have found that standing to talk on the phone or distracting the baby with an activity can delay a feeding. 

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Ready, Set, Go! Teach Your Baby

Courtesy of The Parent Help Line at St. John’s Hospital

 

Babies have many needs. Clean diapers, breast milk or formula, baths, naps, and cuddle time are just a few of those needs. Brain development is one of your baby’s biggest needs. Learning begins at birth.  Experiences and lots of interaction with a loving parent promote brain development. Playing games with your baby may seem silly, but it will actually help him reach his full potential.

 

Your baby loves to look at objects, especially faces.  Look at your baby often. Talk to her as you go about your daily activities.  Play “copycat” games. Stick out your tongue or shape your mouth into an O. Watch as your baby tries to do the same thing she sees you do.  Show your baby colors and patterns. Babies under 2 months may actually prefer black and white pictures.

When the weather is nice, take your baby outdoors for fun and games. Fresh air and a little sunshine are healthy and relaxing.  Talk to your baby as you walk. Play “show and tell.” Talk about and point out trees, leaves, flowers, animals and people.

Place your baby on a blanket in the shade. Let him look up at the patterns of light coming through the trees.

Stimulate your baby’s hearing.  Put on some music and dance or move to the music with your baby close in your arms.  Support your baby’s head at all times.  Find toys that make noise and rattles or toys that chime. Play them with your baby.  She will learn about cause and effect – shaking the toy causes it to make a noise.

Talk to your baby with different tones in your voice. Use a high pitch and then a low pitch. Sing to your baby.

Bath time can be playtime.  As you securely hold your baby, use your free hand to scoop up some water and slowly trickle it over your baby’s tummy.  Show him how to make splashes by patting his hands on the water.

Supply baby with small floating toys that he can touch and grab.

Babies and children learn when they play. They thrive on being loved and being happy.  Parents are their child’s teacher. Everything you do for and with your child develops his brain, teaches skills, and says, “I love you!”

For more information log on to www.parenthelpline.org

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Sibling Rivalry?  Tips for Mixing Pets & Babies By Kim Little

For many of us, our family is not complete without the addition of our beloved animals.  For some, the pets came first.  In our house, we adopted one dog from the Animal Protective League; our 80-pound Labrador Buddy, and two years later we adopted another one; 50-pound Labrador D.J.   Becoming a dog owner was a mild warm-up to our lives ahead as parents.  We couldn’t come and go as we pleased anymore.   Who would come home at lunch to let them out?   Numerous items were chewed on, destroyed, peed on, pooped on, and vomited on.  Unfortunately, this still continues so we keep a gallon size container of Simple Solution in our home.   

But, Buddy & D.J. lived the good life.  Sleeping on our bed, enjoying daily walks, and photo ops in our annual holiday card.  We had playdates with a neighbor’s dog, Roxy!   I’ll admit I even created a scrapbook of our dogs.   I believe that is when I knew it was time to address my biological clock!   

One of my fondest memories of pregnancy is that both dogs loved to rest their head on my ever growing tummy.  When we came home from the hospital with our firstborn, our big dog, Buddy, peeked his nose carefully over the pack n’ play to check out his new sister.   A month into adjusting to new baby, our dogs got into a fight in the nursery with the baby being cradled in grandma’s arms.  I rushed between the dogs to break them apart (do NOT do that!)  and got a nasty dog bite on my arm.    The outburst came out of nowhere, but it quickly reminded me that my furry-children are animals, and my eyes were open wider for the future. 

Flash-forward four years to a house filled with two preschoolers, and Buddy & D.J. have had a lot of changes to endure.  They have adapted amazingly well.   We haven’t had any more outbursts, and they tolerate being dressed in tiara and capes and always follow “the pack” around so we all together when at home.  I do believe that having two pets is better than one because they are able to entertain each other when we are out of the house.   They still lead the good life; fluffy beds to sleep on and lots of treats and room to run and play.  However, I am sure it’s not the same feeling of being top dog all the time like the life pre-kids.   But one of the best lessons our pets teach our children is the power of unconditional love.  That’s all they ask from us is for love, attention…and delicious snacks!    

Mixing dogs and kids can be a lot of fun, but it also is important to remember that their animal instincts cannot be forgotten.   

Here are some tips to keep everyone safe:

  • Do not leave your children or anyone else’s alone with your pets.  Some experts say this is advisable until age 11.   You can’t predict the child’s behavior any more than the reaction from the animal.  
  • Babies tend to treat pets like toys; they need to learn how to safely and gently pet and show love and attention to the animal. 
  • Give your pet extra attention when the child is asleep.
  • Watch your pet for signs of jealously or depression.
  • Make sure your pet is getting enough exercises and is eating well.
  • If you are bringing home a newborn, bring home blankets from the hospital before you bring the child home, so the pet can “smell” the baby.  A few months before the baby is born, play tapes of babies crying so they can get used to the extra noise.
  • Reference Book:  Childproofing your Dog: A Complete Guide to Preparing your Dog for the Children in Your Life by Brian Kilcommons.

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Post-Partum Depression (PPD), by Amy McFadden

Before my second child was born, postpartum depression was the stuff of Lifetime movies and heartbreaking news reports about Andrea Yates (who, by the way, had an extremely rare condition known as postpartum psychosis which is an acute form of postpartum depression.)  But sure enough, it smacked me square in the face when baby number two came along.  It was almost an insult; I had already done the new baby thing and felt I had earned my motherhood stripes.  I would soon learn that there is no real rhyme or reason when it comes to this condition.

 

My mother had warned me before I had my first baby that she had needed some “medicine” after she had my brother.  I discovered as I read more that the tendency to develop the condition can be hereditary, but ppd can also appear out of nowhere.  Back then, I mostly wondered how I would be able to tell the difference between the baby blues and postpartum depression (I later learned that the baby blues will dissipate after a few weeks, while ppd takes root and grows on beyond that first few tumultuous weeks.)  The feelings of sadness I experienced when I had my first child were profound, but did seem to lift after a short while.    

         

This second baby was a completely different story.  With an immature digestive system, she was unable to process breast milk and screamed her head off all day and night, each and every day.  She would literally sleep for 20 minutes at a time.  I was a nervous wreck from lack of sleep and worry.  I also had overwhelming feelings of hopelessness; I was sure things would never get better.  Then about eight weeks after her birth, I had three different sources (my mother, a good friend and our pediatrician’s nurse) suggest to me I might want to see my doctor for some help. 

I was a little resistant at first; I have to confess that I had associated a stigma with any type of mood or mental disorder.  Plus, I was in the throes of a depression, which made it hard to get up the gumption to do something about it.  But I eventually mustered up the energy and courage to see my doctor, who immediately diagnosed me as having postpartum depression.  She started me on a course of antidepressant drugs that I continue to the present (treatment must continue for at least six months to prevent a recurrence) and put me in touch with a wonderful therapist. 

 If you or someone close to you seems to be experiencing a depression after a birth, there are several avenues of help available.  Of course, a great place to start is by visiting your physician, or at a minimum, mentioning the difficulties to your obstetrician/gynecologist during that six-week postpartum checkup.  These experts know what symptoms spell trouble and how to prescribe a helpful medication, if necessary. 

 

I know it sounds crazy to suggest you read anything when you are so frazzled you can’t even comb your hair, but there are many terrific materials on the subject available.  I was ecstatic to find Brooke Shields’ book, Down Came The Rain.  It helped beyond words to hear the personal experience of someone so bright, beautiful and talented.  Her bibliography led me to another fantastic, eye-opening resource:  Women’s Moods:  What Every Woman Must Know About Hormones, the Brain and Emotional Health, by Deborah Sichel, M.D., and Jeanne Watson Driscoll, M.D., R.N., C.S. 

For me, there was a terrible loneliness associated with my ppd.  I wish I had known about a monthly support group called Out of the Blue which meets the second Wednesday of each month from 5 to 6 p.m. at the Carol Jo Vecchie Women and Children’s Center at St. John’s Hospital. 

It takes guts to admit you need help.  But you and your family will be happier and healthier for it.  Know that you are not alone, and that it is not your fault. 

For more information:

www.depressionafterdelivery.com

www.4woman.gov/faq/postpartum.htm

www.postpartumassistance.com

www.postpartum.net

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ShoesZoo on eBay

Add up the cost of lost socks and it’s worthwhile to splurge on the popular Robeez leather shoes made especially for infants (pre-walkers).  Your child can wear them with or without socks underneath, they stay on and come in many different patterns.    A great tip came in from Allyson Straugh:  “I just recently came across a fabulous site on ebay about a month ago. You know the robeez shoes for babies and toddlers? Well, this lady sells super cute look-alike ‘robeez’ for a fraction of the normal cost.  Her screen name is ‘shoeszoo.’ She ships same day and I have been getting my orders in approx. 4 days from Canada!  The styles are cute for boys (hard to find) and girls.  I always receive lots of compliments from parents when my son Dawson wears them.   Just an idea for parents looking to keep their kids ‘stylish’ at a cheaper cost!” 

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Sling Tote

I ordered the Sling Tote (comes with diaper wipe case, insulated bottle holder that removable and changing pad). It can be worn over the shoulder, messenger style or attached to the stroller. The quality is amazing. There are so many pockets and storage compartments. There is even a fleece-lined pocket to place things like sunglasses or a cell phone and you don't have to worry about scratching. The company has several diaper bags to choose from. The price of the Sling Tote is $129.99 (you can search the store locator on the website). It's very practical and functional but so stylish as well.

Here's the company website: www.fleurville.com

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Stuffed Animal Donations

Have you been inundated with new “family members” since your child arrived – the stuffed variety, that is?!  Stuffed animals can be such cute additions to your child’s nursery, but what happens when you receive enough for an army?  Chances are your child has attached to several of these cuddly creatures, but if you have extras, consider these options.

 

  • Use them as adorable book-ends on your child’s bookshelf.

  • Donate them to your church nursery or other charitable organizations.  Always check beforehand to see what their policy is on accepting stuffed animals.  Some places will accept gently used.  Others require new only.

  • The Mini O’Beirne Crisis Nursery accepts new stuffed animals to use with their clients, ages newborn to 6-years-old.  Drop your new stuffed animals or toys you can’t use to their home at 1011 North Seventh Street, Springfield. 

  • Sojourn’s Shelter and Service accepts all new and gently used stuffed animals.  Drop yours off at the Shelter, located at 1800 Westchester Boulevard, Springfield.

  • Looking for other donation ideas?  Check out these websites for organizations that accept new or gently used stuffed toys: www.projectnight.org or www.satruck.org or www.stuffedanimalsforemergencies.org.   

 

 

Video Scrapbooking, Submitted by Lynn Crouch

I keep my video camera close at hand and I videotape my two boys Alex and Max, several times a week.  Sometimes I only tape them for a few minutes at a time, but since I video them so often it has become like a video scrapbook.  Videotaping is a wonderful way to capture how they grow and change.   I try to catch milestones on tape, but I also videotape every day activities like meals, bath time, sleeping and playing.  They will be 2 and 1 in September, and I have many, many hours of them on tape.  I make sure the date stamp feature is on so that I know when specific events happened.  I am taping my boys not only so we have memories of them as they grow and change, but also so we can watch them together when they are older, and they can see how much they are loved.

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Winter: Baby's Must-Haves! by Jennifer Madiar

These are our “can’t-live-without-it” products to make baby’s winter even more fun!

Baby Registry Tips

Thanks to reader Christie Hovey for compiling reader tips for creating a baby registry.

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Car Seat & Child Safety

Visit our Child Safety page where you will find a list of locations for Car Seat Safety checks in the area, recall information and numerous tips for child-proofind and keeping your home safe.

 

Local Children's Haircut Recommendations

Thanks for your suggestions!  Browse through to find the option that sounds best for your kids.

Great Clips on Iles

Harold's Barbershop

Heidi's Hair Studio

Kim Finley at A Closer Look

Krista Stuckey at KS Hair Studio

Sheila at Shampoo

 

Great Clips on Iles

I had my 2 year old son's hair cut the other evening at Great Clips on Iles (across from Montvale) 726-6332 and had a good experience.  We went around 7:30PM and there was no one else in the place.  The bright colors helped keep him distracted from the actual haircut (which he really dislikes).  The stylist was very kid friendly and let him pick out a treat (lollipop) when he was finished.  Unfortunately, I do not remember this particular stylist's name, but hopefully the others there are just as accomodating.  I have also found going later in the evening if it is not past bedtime for your kids is usually less crowded and things go much faster.    * Marcia Wohltmann *

 

Harold's Barbershop

I would like to recommend my very own dad, Harold Guthrie, at Harold's Barbershop at 1405 Stevenson Drive, 529-2191.  He has been barbering for over 35 years, and is an "old-fashioned" style barber, meaning that he doesn't do anything fancy, but does a great traditional short haircut for boys at a very reasonable price ($8).  He also does not require an appointment - you can just drop by at your convenience.  I take my son Nicholas (3) there.  There are two old-fashioned barber chairs that Nicholas loves "riding" in (they go up and down), my dad turns Nick Jr. or cartoons on the TV, and Nicholas is totally preoccupied while my dad cuts his hair.  He also has one of those singing/dancing fish things hanging on the wall that kids love to watch.  His hours are 8:30 - 2:30 Tues-Friday, and 8 - 12 on Saturdays.  * Stacia Guthrie *

 

Heidi's Hair Studio

I take my 2 yr old to Heidi's Hair Studio at 901 Clock Tower 698-6112.   My daughter screams when I try to even brush her hair. Heidi, however, has no problems doing anything.  She has a very small room salon with any kid video imaginable. She also has a playstation for older kids. I highly recommend her!   * Sunney Hinman *

 

Kim Finley at A Closer Look

I recently started to go to Kim Finley at A Closer Look in Sfld (it is on South Grand) Home:  726-8729, Cell:  502-4807  .  She charges $8, and is there on Mondays and Wednesdays (including evenings).  I thought she did a great job and gave many useful hints on how to "shape" my young daughter's hair as it grows longer.  Plus she has 3 children herself so she has lots of experience!  She can be contacted at home or cell (she schedules herself)  * Kate Baima *

 

Krista Stuckey at KS Hair Studio

We have enjoyed the relationship that we have built with Krista Stuckey.  She was previously in charge over at BJ & Company’s Snips and Snaps before they converted that into a spa area.  She now has her own shop call KS Hair Studio at 901 Clocktower.  She can be reached at 546-4988 for appointment hours and pricing.  She is very reasonable.  We take both of our boys to her and my husband switched over to her as well!  She has a video game system and TV for movies for children as well as the famous sucker!    * Angie Neuber*

 

Sheila at Shampoo

We take our kids to Sheila at Shampoo 1007 W. Edwards (behind White Hen on Edwards just past MacArthur) 546-0021.  She is wonderful with all of them and has some toys to play with while they take turns with their siblings getting their hair cut.  She is also very reasonably priced.   * Christina Race *

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Pregnancy

Pregnancy Yoga

Doulas

Maternity Wear

Midwife Assisted Birth

 

Pregnancy Yoga

Prairie Heart Institue's Center for Living offers Prenatal CNRGY Yoga classes

This class, designed specifically for the mother-to-be, is a fusion of Pilates and Yoga. Strengthening, breath work, and relaxation techniques will be emphasized. Participants should bring two pillows to every class.  Feb 28-April 3rd at the Carol Jo Vecchie Center at St. John's Hospital.   Instructor Carol Dunaway.  PFT, CYT and Stott Pilates. 

Cost is $55.  Call 544-LIVE to register & tell them you heard about it on SpringfieldMoms.org!

 

Ahh Yoga is now offering a four week Prenatal Yoga Class on Thursday afternoons.  We will also begin to offer drop-in Kids Yoga on Sunday afternoons.
Please visit  www.ahhyoga.net or call 217-725-2373.  See our ad on Mom's Choice.

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Spotlight on Doulas
Do you know what doulas do? A doula is a professionally trained woman, usually a mother herself, who offers physical and emotional labor support to mothers (and